i think ive come to the conclusion that men and women are NOT capable of being straight up platonic friends lol...no let me take that back cuz i do have ONE guy friend who is just a straight up friend hes not interested in me and im not interested in him and NO hes not gay lol. hes cool and the shit that went down this past week made me appreciate him just that much more lol.
so i started conversating with a guy on twitter and facebook one day last week...nothin serious just makin jokes and chattin back n forth. hes on blogger hes probably reading this and those who follow us of twitter are gonna kno who im talkin bout but i could care less. from the moment i saw his facebook profile i was well aware that we would never be more than friends lol. not to be rude but i didnt find him attractive...im sure someone does just not me. so immediately im like friend it is...i didnt need to meet him, didnt need to get to kno him further, nothin...that was it. aint abt me judging him, not being able to step outta my box, or thinkin too hard...the decision was made immediately.
so we agree to go clubbin together...fine. then he starts talkin bout how we need to get together before hand to hang out and get to kno each other...um WHY?? so i use the age old excuse...oh i dont hang out too much during the week cuz i got my daughter with me. so hes like u can bring her...fuck they do THAT at?? like uh excuse me but no thanks i'll pass...
friday comes he meets up wit me and we go back to my apt to get dressed...my lil bro is a tad confused but is like whatever lol...now the whole night hes askin me for hugs and shit and im like ok i guess...hugs are cool ya kno?? so we chillin and then i take him home and crash...
next day i was sick so hes like u want me to come keep u company im like ok i guess and since i wasnt tryin to be alone with him i beggggg my cuz to come over wit us...
now let me explain something here...as far as facebook, twitter, and the like are concerned this dude is live, exciting, funny, etc yet in person hes NONE of that...NONE. hes dry as HELL like just reaching to make jokes while me and my cuz continue to trade funny looks lmao. anyway the whole night hes like give me a hug can he sleep with me etc (no!) so everyone spends the night but my cuz gets up and leaves early (asshole) so we like chillin and all of a sudden this MF tries to start takin pics of me....HUH???? so im like im ghost im going to sleep in my room lol i wake up a lil later and take him to the train station...like 5 mins later theres a random twit like i miss her already...ok why are u doin this...10 mins later i get a random text like i want u and i want more than friends...what does that mean i ask?? he says that meanshe wants a relationship but since im a self titled relationship phobe we can have a relationship w/out the title....um whaaaat??? lemme explain something...this dude is 5 foot even, 22 yrs old but looks 17, still lives at home, and has no vehicle...fuck ima do wit that??? plz somebody explain am i supposed to go out lookin like im fuckin babysittin?? i mean this dude would have been better suited as my lil bro's new homie not my fuckin man...get tha fuck outta here!!!!
so for some strange reason this convo continued on twitter and that caused a fuckin mess...like all these people got involved and we all ended up blocked from his twitter and facebook page lol. well we did fry tha shit outta him but still...petty shit YOUNGIN!!!
anyway i end this story to say this...men (boys) dont push ur luck...learn how to read body language, and catch hints. if u aint gettin the greenlight from a chick just leave it alone. like if u say once that u want a relationship and u get a lukewarm response...LEAVE IT BE!!! u keep pushin and u WILL end up gettin leant on!!! and i dont feel like a bitch for doin it...i told him i wanted to ONLY be friends and he simply refused to accept what i was sayin!! ughhhhhh!!!!!!!
more to come on my distain for the male species soon lata!!
and i apolgize for the lack of reading and commenting on yall's blogs...i see i lost some followers lol bear with me people!!!!!
About Me
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- i'm a 26 year old know it all who's just tryin to live life and enjoy it to the fullest!
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16 comments:
smh and LMAO!
his self-esteem has been oblitterated.
damn..Ambeezy....lol
Well, gotdamn...I didn't know it was that deep, but I do remember you rippin his ass up...wow, though!! Funny thing is, he talk all that shit on twitter, and this nigga's a midget...lmao...damn...
LMAO amber I was crackin up at this whole damn post! Dudes be buggin... they think they can reach across the universe when u are clearly giving them arms length! I don't get it! LOL
@jill lmao like i told u he brought it on himself!!!
@lina aint that some shit and the first time i seen him i was like he gives sooo much on the internet and looks like THIS??? i was like oh hell nah! lol!
@starchild lol lol my girl just called him john lee malvo and i fuckin died!!! girl these dudes are CRAZY!!!
man! I know exactly who you're talking about! I blocked that fool on twitter a few weeks ago for constantly talking about knockin chicks down and call 'em hoes. I'ma need some black men to grow the hell up! Glad you kicked his young ass to the curb. Any man who brags solely on his tongue probably aint workin with much below the belt anyway.
lmaoooo i remember when u tweeted abt that i just didnt kno who u were talkin abt!! lol lol thats freakin hilarious!!!!!!! girl when i saw him i was like whaaat?? i believe everything he talks abt is straight and utter bullshit!
omg this was way to funny-- dudes like that kill it for the rest of em!!!
btw.. i email you hun :)
woooochiiile, I laughed so hard. u may wanna get an order of protection, some mace, and a tazer for his ass. he has that stalker vibe...5 mins already missing u and broadcasting it on twitter. shanannanannaa!
I tagged you..hehe...go to my page luv :)
girl... you better get you a tazer!! he sounds CRRRRAAZY.
got my laugh in for the day...thank, lol
LMAO! You know, that's why the only guys I hang out with are my cousins...I know they won't try to catch feelings. I can't believe he took the conversation to twitter!
I think men and woman are more than capable of being JUST FRIENDS, but some people have ulterior motives from jump. That's no ones fault but theirs when it comes down to it and they get their feelings hurt. Oh well. I have plenty of male friends who are and will always be JUST FRIENDS and I love it that way.
@starz sent u a request to follow today miss
@champagne lmfao!!! hahaha u kno what u might be RIGHT
@AM yes ma'am
@simone lol lol his lil ass...might kill him wit the tazer
@otis anytime lol
@angelina i dont even blame u dudes be actin real crazy out here!
@krissy yea u right abt the ulterior motives part...sometimes tho u can help but develop feelings over time
I don't know Ms.Amber, Maybe it's just me, but when I'm friends with someone, the friendship is always more important that any feelings of lust or romantic love because I know it can fuck up a good friendship when and if it ends. And I'd rather keep my friend ya know?
@krissy while i dont condone takin a friendship to that level (cuz most of the time it just goes up in flames) like i said sometimes u cant help who u develop feelings for. ive been there it ended shitty but it is what it is...
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